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0:00:12 I’m Guy Kawasaki and this is Remarkable People.
0:00:16 We’re on a mission to make you remarkable.
0:00:21 Helping me in this episode is a remarkable Rabbi Sharon Brouse.
0:00:28 She is the founding and senior Rabbi of ICAR, a trailblazing Jewish community in Los Angeles.
0:00:36 She was named the most influential Rabbi in the United States by Newsweek in 2013.
0:00:42 She delivered blessings at the inaugural prayer services for Presidents Obama and Biden.
0:00:48 Her TED Talk, Reclaiming Religion, has over 1.5 million views.
0:00:53 Sharon holds a Master’s in Human Rights from Columbia University and was ordained by the
0:00:56 Jewish Theological Seminary.
0:01:02 She serves on the Faculty of Reboot and the New Israel Funds International Council.
0:01:07 She has recently been in the media providing comfort and clarity to the people affected
0:01:10 by the Hamas terrorist attack.
0:01:17 Her new book, The Amen Effect, Ancient Wisdom to Mender Broken Hearts and World, explores
0:01:22 the power of community to heal and rebuild society.
0:01:29 I’m Guy Kawasaki, this is Remarkable People, and now here is the remarkable Rabbi Sharon
0:01:34 Brouse.
0:01:37 Please explain what does a Rabbi do?
0:01:39 Oh, that’s a great question.
0:01:40 It is?
0:01:42 No, it is a great question.
0:01:48 In fact, one of the stories in my book is when I was struggling with some grief that
0:01:53 had settled into my body and there was a healer who was working on, who asked if she could
0:01:58 help me, and she said to me, “What do you do for a living?”
0:01:59 And I said, “I’m a Rabbi.”
0:02:00 And we were in Costa Rica.
0:02:02 She said, “I have no idea what that is.”
0:02:05 And I said, “It’s like a pastor or a priest, but Jewish.”
0:02:08 And she said, “Oh, you bury people, I understand.”
0:02:14 Which helped her, it helped explain why I was holding grief in my body tissue.
0:02:22 So we could start there, but really a Rabbi is a teacher, a pastor, a guide through some
0:02:27 of life’s most beautiful and challenging and painful moments.
0:02:34 My job is to help people reconnect with our sacred past so that we can live more meaningfully
0:02:40 and more purposefully in the present and build a more just and loving future.
0:02:46 So it’s all the stuff of life, including most poignantly, I think, being with people through
0:02:52 some of the most painful moments of their lives, and also helping usher people through
0:02:56 the most beautiful moments, standing under the chupa, under the wedding canopy, naming
0:03:01 babies, visiting people when they’re sick in the hospital, and walking people through
0:03:04 burial and their time of grief, all of this.
0:03:10 It’s being part of the stuff of life, but all the while being a translator of ancient
0:03:15 ideas into the present so that we can live differently than we do.
0:03:16 Great.
0:03:23 So now, the title of your book is the Amen Effect, but there are many connotations to
0:03:25 the word amen.
0:03:28 Somebody could say something and you want to signify agreement.
0:03:35 So you say amen, and then there’s the, at the end of a prayer or end of a thought.
0:03:40 So how do you use the word amen in your title?
0:03:42 In all of those ways.
0:03:46 One of the things I love about this word and why I wanted to call the book the Amen Effect
0:03:52 is because it has resonance in so many different traditions and it’s used in so many different
0:03:57 ways, both in sacred community and also it has a kind of secular resonance too, as you
0:03:58 just said.
0:04:02 People say amen to each other, but the idea of amen, it actually comes from the Hebrew
0:04:05 word emuna, which means faith.
0:04:11 And so I think a lot about who we’re expressing faith in and what we’re expressing faith in.
0:04:17 And for some people, amen, and amen is about faith in God, faith in the Holy One, faith
0:04:19 in some force in the universe.
0:04:24 But the real resonance that I’m drawing upon for the book is that it actually is something
0:04:26 we say to each other.
0:04:31 We say amen to each other’s experience in the world, whether that’s an experience of
0:04:38 sorrow or celebration, when it’s someone else’s prayer that we say amen to, then we’re saying
0:04:44 I see you, I hear your prayer, I hear the yearning of your heart, and I’m able to connect
0:04:45 with you on a spiritual level.
0:04:50 I’m able to see you and hopefully also to be seen by you.
0:04:54 And that that is one of the most powerful gifts that human beings can give each other.
0:05:01 The title actually draws from or grew out of my understanding of one of the most important
0:05:05 foundational and oldest Jewish prayers, which is the mourner’s prayer that we say after
0:05:07 the death of a loved one.
0:05:10 And I realize it’s a very complex theology.
0:05:13 The poetry is ancient and profound.
0:05:18 It’s written in Aramaic, which was the language that Jews would have understood 2000 years
0:05:20 ago, but now mostly don’t understand.
0:05:23 So it feels very impenetrable.
0:05:26 But I realized that what’s actually going on in this prayer is that someone with a broken
0:05:33 heart stands in front of a community of strangers and friends and says, my heart is broken.
0:05:37 And the community responds saying, amen, I see you.
0:05:42 And then they go on to say, I’m so scared because I don’t even know how to grieve.
0:05:45 And the community says, amen, we’re right here.
0:05:46 I’m so worried.
0:05:50 I don’t know how to live without him, amen, we’re right by your side.
0:05:56 This idea of bearing witness is actually made manifest in the prayer itself, which is creating
0:06:01 a kind of muscle memory for repeated relentless presence.
0:06:06 I’m here with you, I see you, amen, amen, amen, amen.
0:06:14 And even if your pain scares me, even if your loss destabilizes me, I’m not going to abandon
0:06:17 you because I’m going to be right by your side.
0:06:21 That is my commitment to you, one human being to another.
0:06:29 And so I just love the idea that we can give each other this amen to one another’s scariest
0:06:35 moments in life, just the ability to say, I’m right here by your side through the dark
0:06:38 night of the soul, and I’m not going to abandon you.
0:06:39 What a gift.
0:06:49 It’s a powerful four letter word, clearly, as I was reading this book, not that I’m a
0:06:53 theological scholar or anything, but the thought keeps coming back.
0:06:56 Are the world’s religions so different?
0:07:04 I’ll tell you, I had a revelation once when I was sitting in church on Christmas Eve.
0:07:10 I’m a Jew and I’m a rabbi, and I had never before been to Christmas Mass.
0:07:14 There is a kind of reluctance for Jews to even enter churches.
0:07:20 There’s some legal parameters around us going in and there’s an echo of this is not a safe
0:07:24 place for Jews to be throughout history.
0:07:29 The calls for the pogroms often were issued from the pulpit, so to speak.
0:07:32 And so I had always avoided going into a church on a sacred moment.
0:07:35 I’d been in as a tourist, but never in a sacred moment.
0:07:41 When I moved to Los Angeles, a wonderful pastor, the rector of All Saints Church in Pasadena,
0:07:47 a beloved reverend named Ed Bacon, heard that I moved to town, a young rabbi called
0:07:50 me up and said, “Hey, sister, you got to come to church.
0:07:53 I want you with me on Christmas Eve.”
0:07:59 And so I went and I sat in the front row with all of his Jewish and Muslim friends, and
0:08:02 I listened to him preach on Christmas Eve.
0:08:10 And he told this incredible story of the birth of Jesus, which he said, he described Jesus’s
0:08:17 parents, Mary and Joseph, who were so poor and cast out from society that she went into
0:08:23 labor and not one person in the inn would make room to bring her in so that she could
0:08:25 give birth indignity.
0:08:29 And instead she had to give birth on the lawn outside and he said all of the history of
0:08:36 Christianity from that point forward was an attempt to rectify that terrible moment when
0:08:40 the society had rendered a poor couple invisible.
0:08:45 And I was sitting in the front row, a young rabbi, and I was literally had this revelatory
0:08:52 experience where I realized, my God, that’s a beautiful story and that’s not my story.
0:08:57 That’s Ed Bacon’s story, but I have my own story, which is the story of the Exodus from
0:08:58 Egypt.
0:09:04 It’s the story of my people being enslaved for hundreds of years under Pharaoh, this
0:09:09 oppressive tyrant, and then partnering with God to walk toward liberation and being called
0:09:15 to build a society that’s a counter testimony to the cruelty and oppression and humiliation
0:09:18 and degradation that our people experienced.
0:09:19 But you know what?
0:09:25 Ed Bacon believes that his work in the world is to build a society that counters the cruelty
0:09:29 of the society that left Mary to give birth outside.
0:09:34 And I believe that my work in the world for thousands of years as a Jew is to build a
0:09:39 society that counters the cruelty that my people experienced in Egypt so many years
0:09:45 ago, we have different stories, we’re guided by different core narratives, but we’re on
0:09:47 the same track.
0:09:52 And we both share the same dream of what that world redeemed could look like.
0:09:56 I literally thought all of this sitting in the front row on Christmas Eve with the incense
0:09:57 and the flags.
0:10:03 And I thought, this guy’s my partner in working to build a just and loving world.
0:10:06 He has to be because we dream the same dream.
0:10:10 It’s just motivated by different core stories.
0:10:13 And he speaks of God in one name, and I speak of God in another name.
0:10:17 Our prayers are different, but our dreams are the same.
0:10:20 And so we should be partners in building that world together.
0:10:24 And would you say that extends to the dream of Muslims?
0:10:26 Absolutely, it does.
0:10:31 And in fact, one of the things I love about the word Amen is that that word is also heard
0:10:32 in the mosque.
0:10:37 Amen, Jews say Amen, Christians say Amen, Muslims say Amen.
0:10:45 I love the idea that so many people of faith are able to find themselves on a path toward
0:10:51 deeper spiritual connection by acknowledging the humanity of one another and lifting one
0:10:55 another up in the hopes that we can build a different kind of world.
0:11:01 And so I really see that faith should be a unifier and not a divider.
0:11:06 And it’s one of the reasons that we built our community 20 years ago in Los Angeles,
0:11:11 because I really looked at what religion looked like in the public space.
0:11:17 And in all of our religious traditions, the dominant religious voice was often one of
0:11:25 extremism, of exclusion, of intolerance, of cruelty, even of violence.
0:11:31 And I realized that so many of our faith traditions have at their core messages of peace, that
0:11:37 the path to God is honoring the image of God in every human being.
0:11:41 I know that those messages exist in all of our sacred texts, and I think that every religious
0:11:46 practitioner today is an interpreter of text.
0:11:53 And so we don’t have to choose the most regressive extremist and violent interpretations.
0:11:57 We can and we must choose interpretations that lead us not to hate each other, but to
0:11:58 love each other.
0:12:06 And some of my best partners in the work are people who are religious, Muslims, Christians,
0:12:12 people who are sick, people who are Buddhist, people who take very seriously their own tradition
0:12:16 as a call toward manifesting the dignity of all human beings.
0:12:17 Okay.
0:12:22 This is something I struggle with is help me wrap my head around the fact that all of
0:12:30 these, what I consider good and solid and loving values are professed by people.
0:12:38 And yet leaders in these churches supporting things that just is not according to scripture,
0:12:42 it’s complete utter contradiction.
0:12:47 So how do I wrap my head around the fact, whether it’s an evangelical or a far right
0:12:54 conservative Jewish person, how do I wrap my head around this conflict between what they
0:13:00 profess in this loving God and their actions in the real world?
0:13:10 I really feel that there’s a mandate for me and for you and for anyone who sees a different
0:13:18 kind of call in the sacred traditions to use our voices as a counter testimony to those
0:13:20 extremist voices.
0:13:27 Every time I hear a rabbi issue a proclamation that counters my understanding of who we’re
0:13:33 called to be as Jews in the world, I feel I have to speak even louder.
0:13:38 I have to offer even more moral clarity about what I read from our sacred tradition.
0:13:44 The first thing we learn about human beings in the Hebrew Bible, which is held sacred
0:13:49 by Jews and Christians and Muslims, the first thing we learn about human beings is that
0:13:55 every human being is created in God’s own image, that every single human life is sacred.
0:14:01 And our rabbis read that in the Mishnah, the ancient compendium of Jewish law that’s codified
0:14:09 1800 years ago, and they read that to mean that every person has innate dignity, that
0:14:15 if you destroy a single life, it’s as if you’ve destroyed an entire world because we have
0:14:19 no idea the reverberative power of any human life.
0:14:22 And if you save a human life, it’s as if you’ve saved an entire world.
0:14:25 And that teaching is then echoed in the Quran.
0:14:29 This is something that Jews and Muslims share, this idea.
0:14:34 Our rabbis read that the fact that the first person was created alone and created in the
0:14:41 image of God means that all people are fundamentally equal, which is the fundamental incompatibility
0:14:43 of religion and racism.
0:14:49 You can’t take religion seriously and be a racist because if you take religion seriously,
0:14:52 it means that you believe that we all come from the same one.
0:14:56 So how can anyone be fundamentally better than another?
0:15:01 It means it means that every single person is unique, that every person has something
0:15:04 to offer in this world that is absolutely unique.
0:15:09 And if that person were to no longer to exist or not to grow up in conditions where that
0:15:12 person can flourish, then the world is bereft.
0:15:20 And so what my response is, obviously, when I hear a rabbi issue a proclamation that defies
0:15:25 my understanding of who we’re called to be as Jews and as human beings in the world,
0:15:27 obviously, it fills me with pain.
0:15:33 I’m an anguish over it, but I try to channel my pain into a different kind of discourse.
0:15:39 I will use every platform I can to preach a different kind of truth, the kind of truth
0:15:45 that I believe comes straight from the same religious text that he’s reading in one way.
0:15:50 I’m going to read in another way, and I’m going to read it as a call for greater love
0:15:52 and understanding.
0:15:57 Even if that rabbi is going to use it as a justification or an excuse for violence and
0:16:02 for human cruelty, and I think that that needs to happen in all of our religious traditions,
0:16:07 the religious extremists will take up all the space in the room if we let them.
0:16:13 And so what we have to do is offer voices that counter those voices that are fundamentalist
0:16:18 and extremist, and we have to amplify those voices.
0:16:24 We have to make sure when we hear people speaking in voices of love that we lift those up because
0:16:28 those voices too are directly from the tradition.
0:16:34 And again, all interpreters are making a choice about what we lift up and what we hold sacred.
0:16:35 My choice is love.
0:16:42 And I often think, I, about what if I’m wrong, and what if the sacred texts actually are calling
0:16:46 for exactly what these extremist voices believe?
0:16:47 And I’m wrong.
0:16:48 They’re not about love.
0:16:50 They’re not about justice.
0:16:52 And I think one day I’ll have to contend with that.
0:16:58 One day I will meet the Holy One, and God will say, “How dare you use my hateful texts
0:16:59 to preach love?”
0:17:00 And I’ll say, “You know what?
0:17:03 I chose to see a better side of you, right?
0:17:08 If it comes to that, I will take that, I will take that leap at that time, but I really
0:17:13 believe that we are called not to destroy each other, but to help each other thrive and
0:17:17 to create societies in which human thriving is possible.
0:17:19 And I will continue to believe that.
0:17:24 I really do, and I’ll continue to fight for that reality in this world.
0:17:27 I don’t think you should be too worried about that moment.
0:17:33 I think there are a lot of people who, they better be ready to explain why they did such
0:17:42 heinous things in his or her name, because I just cannot wrap my mind around we’re evangelical
0:17:50 Christians, but we want to put LGBTQ+ people on the fringe and we want to put the Mexicans
0:17:55 in the concentration camps and all this kind of just unbelievable stuff that they call
0:17:56 themselves Christians.
0:17:59 I don’t understand that at all.
0:18:05 My response rather than screaming at the screen when I read and hear about this is to work
0:18:12 to build a community that is truly loving and embracing of LGBTQ folks that really
0:18:17 centers the voices of people who are marginalized in other religious spaces.
0:18:23 Part of that is publicly acknowledging the violence that so many of our religious traditions
0:18:29 have done toward marginalized people over the course of history, acknowledging it, naming
0:18:35 it out loud, and then working as hard as we can to create spaces, again, that are a counter
0:18:41 testimony to that kind of exclusion and cruelty and violence.
0:18:49 It seems to me that there is such a schism between the word of God and the actions of
0:18:54 the church, the formal church in so many ways.
0:19:02 And then you hear about how the attendance and support of churches are declining.
0:19:06 And it makes perfect marketing sense to me that there is such hypocrisy.
0:19:09 How can you support the church?
0:19:13 You can love God and hate the church at this point, right?
0:19:18 I gave a TED talk about this some years ago now in 2016.
0:19:25 And I said that part of the reason that we built our community is because on one hand
0:19:32 we had this corruption, in my view, of faith and religion, the manifestation in the public
0:19:39 space of religious life as an excuse for cruelty toward other human beings and for supremacy.
0:19:46 And on the other hand, exactly when our religious institutions needed to be a powerful counter
0:19:53 voice, they were becoming quieter and more muted and less courageous and less creative.
0:19:59 And I really felt like we needed to reintroduce the language of the prophets, the prophetic
0:20:02 voice into the public space.
0:20:08 These guys, I mean, Isaiah got naked and ran through the streets screaming for years to
0:20:11 get people’s attention and say, “What’s going on?
0:20:13 Our society is broken.
0:20:15 Wake up people.
0:20:18 Where is that voice today?”
0:20:23 And the way that I phrased it was, the young people are speaking with their feet, fleeing
0:20:25 religious institutions.
0:20:31 And it’s across the board, or at least it was 20 years ago when we started our community,
0:20:36 that Jews, Christians, Muslims, all of us were reporting a decline in affiliation, decline
0:20:39 in church attendance, the church was graying.
0:20:44 There were all kinds of studies about the discontinuity crisis in Judaism.
0:20:47 People in church averaged 70 and up in Christianity.
0:20:52 And what I said was that young people have decided that they’re simply uninterested in
0:20:59 engaging a religion that’s deadly or a religion that’s already dead, right?
0:21:05 So what we have to do is revitalize, reanimate, create a new kind of religious practice.
0:21:11 And here I’m very influenced by the teachings of a Benedictine monk named David Steindl-Rost,
0:21:18 who you might know, who David Steindl-Rost wrote that all religions start with some kind
0:21:22 of powerful, mystical revelation.
0:21:25 It’s the equivalent of a volcanic eruption.
0:21:29 It’s fiery, it’s powerful, it’s moving.
0:21:35 That revelation either happens to one person or to many, but it is unquestionably a powerful
0:21:36 mystical moment.
0:21:43 And then like a volcanic eruption, the lava flows down the side of the mountain and lands
0:21:45 at the base of the mountain.
0:21:50 And then some years pass, maybe a couple of hundred years pass, and at some point people
0:21:55 walk by the base of that mountain and all they see is cold dead rock.
0:22:00 And they have no idea that there used to be a fire underneath that stone.
0:22:05 And he says our work as practitioners is to take out a chisel and start chipping away
0:22:09 at the cold dead rock and reclaim the fire that is at the heart of it.
0:22:13 And what that means is, can you create a fire?
0:22:18 Can you create a fire that gives warmth and that gives light but doesn’t burn the house
0:22:20 down?
0:22:25 That’s the danger of religious practice because the people who have the most fiery experience
0:22:28 of faith are often the arsonists, right?
0:22:31 Or the people who are burning the house down right now.
0:22:35 They’re literally threatening to burn the whole world down right now.
0:22:43 Can we create an experience of faith and community that is passionate and fiery but fiery for
0:22:47 love and not for supremacy is such a thing possible?
0:22:49 And I believe it is possible.
0:22:54 And it is actually the mandate of those who live in this world today and want to see a
0:23:00 different kind of world to try to reclaim the very essence of what stood at the heart
0:23:01 of our traditions.
0:23:06 And in fact, the name of my community is Ikar, which means in Hebrew, the essence or the
0:23:08 core or the heart of the matter.
0:23:35 Can we get back to that sacred fire at the heart of our traditions?
0:23:41 Okay, so let me ask you the most facetious question you may have faced for a while, which
0:23:46 is let’s say that Netanyahu listens to this podcast.
0:23:52 That ain’t going to happen, but let’s just say he listens to this podcast and he’s inspired
0:23:58 and he calls you up and says, Rabbi, give me your thoughts, give me your advice.
0:24:00 What do you think I should do?
0:24:01 What do you say to him?
0:24:10 I agree with you that I don’t think he’ll hear this podcast, but I think that he needs
0:24:11 to resign.
0:24:16 I think that there needs to be new leadership and there needs to be new leadership with
0:24:18 a new vision of what’s possible.
0:24:22 Eternal war is not an option.
0:24:24 Israelis and Palestinians deserve to thrive.
0:24:30 They deserve to have a thriving future and we need leaders who can help people imagine
0:24:37 a different kind of future, a future in which every person who lives in that region, whether
0:24:45 they are Israeli Jews or Palestinians, can understand that there’s a life for their children,
0:24:51 a life without war, a life without fear, an opportunity to live in dignity, to have their
0:24:54 collective and their individual rights honored.
0:24:56 It’s possible.
0:25:00 Terrible, intractable conflicts have ended before.
0:25:07 Nobody ever could have imagined that someone could cross the border from Germany to France,
0:25:11 hop on a train, get over to London, go to Belgium.
0:25:17 This Europe was a continent of bloody wars where millions of people died.
0:25:22 They were at war with each other and now there are essentially open borders there.
0:25:28 That only happened because at some point somebody envisioned a different kind of future.
0:25:32 We need leaders there who can actually articulate a different kind of future.
0:25:38 I’ll tell you, Guy, that I, as an American rabbi, believe that part of my responsibility
0:25:46 is to help the diaspora communities envision a different kind of future and then to amplify,
0:25:51 to platform, to amplify and to help resource Israelis and Palestinians who are on the
0:25:57 ground today, who are some of the most courageous people I know, who themselves, even in the
0:26:03 midst of war and with hearts full of grief, are able to imagine a different future.
0:26:08 Their voices are muted on the public stage because what’s much more interesting, the
0:26:15 media is drawn to voices calling for violence, calling for death, calling for eternal war.
0:26:20 But what we actually need is to amplify the voices of the people who instead believe that
0:26:27 peace is possible, believe that there can be a lasting peace that can actually leave
0:26:33 all parties to this terrible conflict, feeling seen and heard and dignified and where they
0:26:35 can build a future.
0:26:40 That future’s not coming under the regime of Benjamin Netanyahu.
0:26:44 That person cannot be the leader that takes us there, but there are leaders who can.
0:26:48 And so I would say to him, with all respect, sir, your time is done.
0:26:50 You’ve done enough damage.
0:26:54 It’s time to step aside and let a new generation of leaders emerge.
0:26:55 Wow.
0:26:59 Let me put my brains back in my head.
0:27:01 That was not the answer.
0:27:05 I was, wow, that is quite the answer.
0:27:11 So I’m going to tell you, this is a real life situation that I face right now.
0:27:16 I have a friend, part of the LGBTQ community.
0:27:22 And every once in a while, he tells me, he says, oh, the people in Michigan have declared
0:27:30 that they are non-committed and we’re threatening Biden because Biden, we believe, is supporting
0:27:37 a genocide and we are so anti-genocide that we’re going to be non-committal and that could
0:27:40 affect his reelection.
0:27:43 And I tell him, so you need to think more than one step ahead.
0:27:50 So let’s say that works and Joe Biden loses and Donald Trump wins.
0:27:56 You’re going to be celebrating for about five seconds before you figure out what Donald
0:27:59 Trump will do to your community and to this world.
0:28:05 They so believe that Joe Biden is trying to create a genocide of the Palestinian people.
0:28:08 What do I even say to that person?
0:28:10 I happen to agree with you.
0:28:15 I will say this, people’s hearts are breaking right now.
0:28:16 They’re breaking.
0:28:22 And I do understand where that pain is coming from that made people right, you know, uncommitted
0:28:24 on the ballot.
0:28:29 I think that they’re trying to use the voice that they have and the power that they have
0:28:33 to signal how heartbroken they are.
0:28:37 My deepest prayer, guys, is that that does not translate into votes for a third-party
0:28:44 candidate or a failure to vote in November because, of course, I see exactly what you
0:28:51 see and the lives of so many people will be so much worse, including the Palestinian
0:28:52 people.
0:28:58 If Joe Biden loses the election in November and Donald Trump is reelected.
0:29:02 And I’ll tell you my deepest fear right now because you’re asking what can you say.
0:29:06 And I think in some ways the most important thing that you and I can do is speak honestly
0:29:08 about it.
0:29:17 But my greatest concern is that in Trump’s first term, he was not able to manifest his
0:29:25 greatest aspirations for the kind of authoritarian regime he wanted to build because the resistance
0:29:27 against him was united.
0:29:34 There was a very broad-based, united resistance to that authoritarianism.
0:29:38 And now that very same coalition that stood together when millions of people came out
0:29:43 to the women’s march, there were five million people across the United States that came
0:29:48 out on his inauguration day in 2017, that coalition doesn’t exist anymore.
0:29:52 It has completely been decimated.
0:29:58 And so my greatest fear is not just that he’ll be reelected for a second term now, but that
0:30:04 he’ll be able to do in his second term what he was not able to do in his first term.
0:30:09 Because the resistance against that regime can’t talk to each other right now.
0:30:16 And so it is of the utmost importance that people vote and that they don’t deny themselves
0:30:21 the right that so many people in this country have fought and died for, the right to vote,
0:30:26 and that they can protest all they want in the days leading up to the election.
0:30:32 But they have to understand what is at stake for all of the people of this country and
0:30:40 the world and for our planet itself if there comes to pass a second Trump administration
0:30:41 in this country.
0:30:49 I think we are standing on the precipice of utter failure of the United States, utter
0:30:50 failure.
0:30:57 Listen, in 2016, I was in Germany and I was having dinner with two friends and they said,
0:31:00 hey, this is your 1930.
0:31:06 And to this day, we ask our grandparents or our parents, how did Germany get behind Hitler?
0:31:09 How could that have possibly happened?
0:31:15 And they said to me, guy, this is the choice that your country faces now.
0:31:21 And do you want your grandchildren to ask, did grandpa fight against Trump and fascism
0:31:23 or did he go along?
0:31:30 And ever since that dinner, I felt convicted and I am just I’m the most political person
0:31:33 you can find and I don’t give a shit.
0:31:36 You don’t want to follow me, you don’t want to read my book, you don’t want to listen
0:31:37 to my podcast.
0:31:38 I don’t care.
0:31:40 This is what I’m telling you.
0:31:45 It’s a source of utter despair and great concern to me, I tell you.
0:31:52 I share your concern and listen, I want to say that my book was initially slated to come
0:31:56 out end of September, 2024.
0:32:01 And my editor at Penguin Random House very wisely realized that this would not be a great
0:32:05 time for the book to come out because she said to me, and this was two years ago, this
0:32:09 is going to be an extremely contentious election.
0:32:13 And she said, nobody’s going to be able to hear the message of this book at that time.
0:32:17 Can you get the manuscript to me 10 months earlier than we had planned?
0:32:21 We want to get it out in January, 2024, a nice quiet time where people can still like
0:32:26 each other and they can hear the message and we can strengthen our muscles to work together.
0:32:27 And so I did.
0:32:31 I got the manuscript in 10 months early, which was about a year and a half ago that we closed
0:32:32 the manuscript.
0:32:38 Anyway, it turns out January, 2024 was not as quiet as we had imagined it might be and
0:32:41 already there are incredible rifts in the society.
0:32:47 But I really believe now that the book came out at exactly the moment that it needed to
0:32:54 come into the world, because at the very heart of the Amen effect is the idea that it is
0:33:01 precisely at the moment that we are most inclined to pull away from each other, that we have
0:33:05 to instead train our hearts to find our way to one another.
0:33:13 It’s exactly when it’s most counter instinctual because somebody else’s pain, it makes us
0:33:19 feel vulnerable because somebody else’s heartache feels to me like it’s a pain I don’t want
0:33:25 to get close to or because someone else’s views or actions have caused me harm.
0:33:29 And the last thing in the world I want to do is get proximate to a person who has caused
0:33:36 me harm that we are called into relationship with one another, we’re called into proximity.
0:33:42 And I do believe that is the only way that we survive this era that we’re living in right
0:33:43 now.
0:33:48 And so in some way, the book coming out during this terrible time has actually given me the
0:33:55 opportunity to talk about what would it take for us to turn to one another with compassion
0:34:01 and with curiosity, precisely at the moment that we all want to jet out of the room and
0:34:03 nobody wants to have anything to do with each other.
0:34:08 And I think that is the most critical message of our time.
0:34:15 And in tactical and practical ways, someone listening to this Christian, Jewish, Muslim,
0:34:22 whatever he or she is, okay, I understand what you said at a high level, but what are
0:34:23 you saying?
0:34:27 Should I go and like take somebody from QAnon out for a few beers?
0:34:29 What are you saying tactically?
0:34:34 Okay, so can I take a step back and just give you the central image of the book because
0:34:37 I think it’ll help us answer that question.
0:34:44 So the central paradigm actually comes from a very ancient practice, which was a pilgrimage
0:34:45 practice.
0:34:49 The Jews used to come from all across the land and even the diaspora and they would come
0:34:53 up to Jerusalem for pilgrimage in the ancient world.
0:34:57 And so this was, we’re talking 2000 years ago, they would ascend to Jerusalem.
0:35:02 They would ascend the steps of the Temple Mount, the most sacred place in the most sacred
0:35:03 city.
0:35:08 They would enter through this beautiful arched entryway and they would turn to the right
0:35:13 and circle around the perimeter of the courtyard, of this ancient space, hundreds of thousands
0:35:15 of people at once.
0:35:21 And when I was researching this book, I read firsthand testimony and accounts from pilgrims
0:35:26 who had gone on the Hajj in Mecca, people who had gone to engage in this sacred practice
0:35:33 and they talked about how transformative it is to engage in this holy work of just being
0:35:38 in movement, in mass movement with millions of people.
0:35:42 In the case of Jewish history, it was hundreds of thousands of people who would be moving
0:35:46 all at once, except the text says, “For someone with a broken heart.”
0:35:51 And that person goes up to Jerusalem, goes up the steps of the Temple Mount, enters
0:35:55 through the same entryway, but instead of turning to the right like everybody else turns
0:35:57 to the left.
0:36:02 And so there’s a sacred encounter that happens between the broken hearted and the people
0:36:05 who are just there for the work of pilgrimage.
0:36:13 And when they pass somebody who’s not okay, they stop, they see her in her humanity and
0:36:14 in her brokenness.
0:36:16 They ask her one simple question.
0:36:21 In Hebrew, the words are malach, which means, “What happened to you?
0:36:25 Tell me about your broken heart.”
0:36:31 And that person answers saying, “I’m a mourner, my loved one just died, or I’m just worried
0:36:36 sick about my kid and I need someone to tell me she’s going to be okay, or my partner just
0:36:41 left and I feel totally blindsided or I just feel so alone in the world.”
0:36:46 And then the people going in the direction of the pilgrims, they give them a blessing
0:36:49 and they say, “May you be held with love in this sacred place.
0:36:55 May you know as you navigate through your treatment for your cancer that you are surrounded
0:36:56 by love.
0:36:59 May you feel that you are accompanied on this journey.”
0:37:03 And what I realized that’s so powerful about this ancient pilgrimage ritual is that literally
0:37:07 none of the parties want to be in this encounter.
0:37:12 The people who are broken hearted do not want to even get out of bed, let alone get dressed
0:37:18 and show up and walk in the opposite direction even when the whole world is going this way.
0:37:22 And yet they do have to go, they’re not allowed to opt out, and they’re not allowed to walk
0:37:26 in the direction of everyone else because they’re not okay.
0:37:30 And we’re told you can’t pretend you’re okay when you’re not okay.
0:37:34 And the people who are okay that day, the last thing in the world they want to do in
0:37:39 this peak moment of their spiritual lives is pull away from their friends and their community
0:37:44 and their families and say, “Hey, I see a bleary eyed stranger who’s walking toward me.
0:37:47 Let me go check in on them and see what happened to their broken heart.”
0:37:50 And yet that’s exactly what they’re called to do.
0:37:56 And I realized that what this ancient ritual is doing is giving us a formula for how to
0:38:03 engage each other when we are broken, when there’s brokenness all around us.
0:38:09 And the formula is compassion and curiosity, compassion and curiosity.
0:38:15 First to actually see each other, to look in the eyes of the other, to see one another
0:38:22 even in our brokenness and to ask, “Tell me, what does it look like from your vantage point?”
0:38:28 And we learn at the end, Chapter 8, I describe that actually it’s not only the brokenhearted
0:38:34 who walk to the left when everybody else is going to the right, but it’s also the ostracized,
0:38:41 which is a very rare, specific, severe punishment that in the ancient world that was visited
0:38:44 upon people who had caused grave harm in the community.
0:38:46 They’re not yet excommunicated.
0:38:49 They’re not the people who if they enter the Temple Mount, they’re going to blow up the
0:38:50 Temple Mount.
0:38:54 Those people are not welcome in there because they would render the place unsafe.
0:39:00 But pretty much everybody else, even the people who’ve caused real harm, they enter that space.
0:39:04 They walk in the direction of the brokenhearted and the people who are okay come from the
0:39:07 other direction and they see them too.
0:39:12 And they ask them, “Tell me, what do you see from your vantage point?
0:39:15 Why is there so much pain in your heart?
0:39:20 You who wrote uncommitted on your ballot, tell me what you see because I’m hurt by that
0:39:22 because I’m worried about our future.
0:39:26 I’m worried about our democracy, but I’m not going to speak from my hurt.
0:39:31 I’m going to find a place to curiosity where I can ask you, “Why did you do that?”
0:39:35 And then they’re going to answer saying, “This is what I see from my vantage point.”
0:39:38 And suddenly we see each other as human beings.
0:39:40 Our sorrow meets sorrow.
0:39:43 Our humanity needs humanity.
0:39:49 And suddenly we’re able to see one another in a different way and we’re in a conversation
0:39:50 with each other.
0:39:52 We’re not going to convince each other.
0:39:54 We’re not going to agree with each other.
0:39:59 But suddenly we can see that we might be on the same side of history and that we’re all
0:40:05 moved by the terrible loss of human life and we all want to dream of a future in which
0:40:13 no people, not Israelis in the Kibbutzim on the Gaza border and not Palestinian children
0:40:18 just over the border on the other side, none of them deserve to suffer.
0:40:22 Can we see one another in our fullest humanity?
0:40:25 And so the book actually gives us this kind of formula.
0:40:26 It’s about compassion.
0:40:27 It’s about curiosity.
0:40:32 The way that we get there is by showing up when our instinct is to pull away from each
0:40:33 other.
0:40:39 We show up for the difficult conversations, for the grief, for the love, for the loss.
0:40:43 And we find our way back into conversation again and again and again.
0:40:50 And at the end of the book, I have eight practices, eight spiritual practices, one correlating
0:40:51 to each of the chapters.
0:40:56 And the idea is this isn’t just some big, vague idea.
0:41:03 There are things that each one of us can do in our lives today that can actually change
0:41:10 the neural patterns in our brains, that can actually rewire us so that we engage differently.
0:41:15 And they’re very simple, so simple that some of them may even seem obvious.
0:41:20 But there are things that we can actually do right now that can lead us into greater
0:41:25 encounter when our instinct is to disincline from one another to retreat.
0:41:33 So tell us the eight, tell us the eight so that people will get a glimpse into the book.
0:41:37 I’m going to start with actually with the last one, because it’s so much of what we’ve
0:41:43 been discussing today, guys, really our shared concern about the future of this country and
0:41:45 the future of the world.
0:41:52 Hannah Arendt, the great 20th century Jewish philosopher, warned that loneliness, isolation
0:41:59 and alienation are preconditions for totalitarianism, that when people are in relationship with
0:42:05 each other, tyrannical regimes cannot take root in a society.
0:42:09 Conspiracy theories cannot take root in a society, because if somebody tells you that
0:42:16 Jews control the weather with space lasers, Jewish space lasers, you might believe it
0:42:21 unless you know a Jew and you know that it rained at that Jew’s wedding.
0:42:24 And then you think, well, if Jews control the weather, why wouldn’t they have stopped
0:42:26 the rain on the wedding day?
0:42:30 And so you realize that this is not real.
0:42:32 And so we have to know each other.
0:42:37 And the reason that this is such a crisis and an urgent crisis is because we don’t know
0:42:38 each other in America.
0:42:41 We are isolated and alienated from each other.
0:42:47 A study done before COVID showed that 30% of Americans do not know the names of their
0:42:49 next door neighbors.
0:42:51 We don’t know each other.
0:42:57 I put this as the practice for chapter two is to actually get to know your neighbors.
0:43:03 So what I have done is I started to go on a run every morning, but the practice is go
0:43:08 for a walk once a week around the block and literally greet every person you pass and
0:43:11 introduce yourselves to the people you don’t know.
0:43:15 I started to go on a run every single morning during COVID.
0:43:19 And I just said hello to every neighbor that I passed on the street and I introduced myself
0:43:24 to the ones I don’t know and has changed my experience of my neighborhood.
0:43:26 I know my neighbors now.
0:43:29 I didn’t know them before, honestly, I just I’m very busy.
0:43:30 I work all the time.
0:43:32 I didn’t know my neighbors and now I do.
0:43:37 So this is something that we can do that will actively change our relationship with our
0:43:44 neighbors that can I think is one of our best shots at saving our democracy moving away
0:43:45 from democracy and toward community.
0:43:52 The sacred practice for chapter one, a chapter that I call show up is go to the funeral.
0:43:54 Just go to the funeral.
0:43:59 Your colleague, your friend, your extended has had a loss.
0:44:00 It takes a lot of effort.
0:44:03 You have to reschedule a lot of meetings in order to get to the funeral.
0:44:09 You never regret going to the funeral and giving comfort to the bereaved and giving
0:44:13 them the opportunity to talk about their loved one.
0:44:17 Whether they had a complicated pain relationship with them or a beautiful relationship with
0:44:22 them and blessed relationship, give them the opportunity to grieve and to know that they
0:44:27 are not alone, that you are bearing withness, that you are with them through this period
0:44:28 of challenge.
0:44:32 The second practice is meet your neighbors, which I’ve already said.
0:44:36 The third practice is a chapter called see no stranger, which I named after the book
0:44:42 of a dear friend of mine named Valerie core, who’s a sick American author who wrote a memoir
0:44:44 in manifesto called see no stranger.
0:44:47 And the practice here is honor the divine image.
0:44:52 And this is an opportunity to actually pause.
0:44:56 And when we have an encounter with someone, for example, someone on the street outside
0:45:04 of the Starbucks, and just imagine for a moment that this too is an image of the divine.
0:45:09 How does that change the way that we encounter that human being who’s living on the streets?
0:45:15 I happen to live in a city where there are, I think, 76,000 people living on the street.
0:45:20 How does that change our encounter with every single human being if we just pause for a
0:45:26 moment and think, I need to honor the image of the divine in this person?
0:45:31 Chapter four, which is about finding our mission, our purpose in this world.
0:45:35 Each one of us, I believe, is called into this world with a very specific purpose.
0:45:42 That chapter is called come alive and the practices start by serving, engage every day
0:45:47 in an act of service for another person because so often we’re searching for the meaning of
0:45:51 life by looking internally and by looking out at nature.
0:45:55 And it’s important for us to have that kind of internal reflection and encounter with
0:45:56 nature.
0:46:02 But I believe that we find our purpose by contemplating how can I be of service today?
0:46:07 What is one thing I can do to be of service to another person?
0:46:09 And that could mean calling a bereaved friend.
0:46:12 It could mean serving a meal to someone who’s homeless.
0:46:16 It could mean bringing a cup of coffee to someone who’s cold.
0:46:21 There are little acts that help us change our experience of one another and change our
0:46:23 experience of the world.
0:46:28 Number five, chapter five is called grieve and live.
0:46:35 And it’s about how we hold joy and pain at the same time with the same heart.
0:46:40 And in chapter five, the practice calls us, even in times of great sorrow, like what we’re
0:46:48 experiencing right now, to give ourselves a joy break, to allow ourselves to have moments
0:46:56 of just pure unencumbered joy, not as an escape from reality, but as a way of honoring
0:46:59 the fact that we are present to a broken reality.
0:47:05 And we cannot sustain that presence if we don’t also allow our souls to be nurtured
0:47:14 and to be nourished by joy, by laughter, by dance, by music, give yourself a joy break.
0:47:20 My friend, Shifra, who was in mourning after her beloved partner died, set the clock for
0:47:26 18 minutes every single day during her year of mourning, in which she forced herself to
0:47:32 experience joy, whether that’s eating the whole chocolate cake or dancing in her apartment
0:47:38 with the music blasting, something to allow herself to experience joy, not to escape the
0:47:45 grief, but as an expression of her vitality, even from the midst of her grief.
0:47:48 Chapter six is a chapter on the healers.
0:47:53 What happens to the people who, by nature or by profession, are always looking out for
0:47:58 others, always caring for others, always going to the funeral, always at the burial, at
0:48:03 the house in mourning, bringing the lasagna for the friend who’s just went through surgery.
0:48:07 And my practice there is called don’t grin and bear it.
0:48:14 Don’t pretend that you are okay when you’re not okay, because this grief that we take in
0:48:18 from one another can fill our bodies until we can’t move anymore.
0:48:24 And there’s a whole movement now, a whole literature around vicarious trauma, secondary
0:48:25 trauma.
0:48:29 What happens to the healers when we just take all of that pain into our bodies?
0:48:35 And as my sister, Dev, says, “If you don’t metabolize that pain, it will metastasize
0:48:37 inside your body.”
0:48:42 So don’t pretend you’re okay when you’re not okay, it’s okay to take a day off, it’s
0:48:47 okay to be held by others, even when you’re the one who usually does the holding.
0:48:51 There are two more here, chapter seven, which is the bear withness chapter that we were
0:48:53 talking about earlier.
0:48:57 This practice is simply to be present.
0:49:06 And I will tell you a very brief story about this, which is the story of a mother who had
0:49:14 a teenager in the house who had become sort of toxic the way sometimes teenagers do.
0:49:19 The house was a landmine, anything she said, anything the mother did could lead to a kind
0:49:22 of explosion in the house.
0:49:27 And finally one day, the mother who’s, I can’t reach my kid, I don’t know how to get
0:49:28 to her.
0:49:30 Finally she did the following.
0:49:35 She said to her daughter, “Listen, I bought a chocolate babka and I am going to be sitting
0:49:37 in the kitchen at midnight.
0:49:41 If you’re hungry for babka, you can find me in the kitchen.”
0:49:46 And she sat there with her slippers and robe on at midnight and the kid did not show up.
0:49:50 And so she showed up the next night with chocolate babka in the kitchen and the kid didn’t show
0:49:58 up day after day, night after night for weeks until finally once in the middle of the night,
0:50:04 this kid showed up in the kitchen at midnight and said, “Mom, is there any babka left?”
0:50:06 And the mom said, “Have a seat.”
0:50:07 And they started to connect.
0:50:12 The idea of chapter seven is just stay present.
0:50:14 Just try to stay present.
0:50:19 Where there’s pain, it will often take a lot of effort in order to be present with one
0:50:21 another.
0:50:24 Just let them know that you’re there and you’re not going to disappear.
0:50:29 And finally chapter eight, which is in some ways the hardest chapter of this book at this
0:50:32 moment, this chapter is called “Wonder.”
0:50:36 It’s a chapter on curiosity and how we hold curiosity for the people, not who are coming
0:50:40 toward us in that sacred circle but who might be coming at us, people who’ve caused us
0:50:45 pain and the practice is breathe and stay at the table.
0:50:50 Try not to leave when the conversation gets hard.
0:50:53 We all have this fight or flight instinct.
0:50:57 Try to just stay and try to hold curiosity.
0:51:01 Sometimes it’s not going to work at all and you’ll feel like I just couldn’t break through
0:51:08 and sometimes just staying at the table ends up planting a seed of possibility in the heart
0:51:13 of the person who’s opposite you, that might lead to some growth and might lead to some
0:51:27 transformation for both of you.
0:51:33 I have about five more questions for you but I’m not going to ask you them because this
0:51:37 is the way to end this podcast with these eight recommendations.
0:51:46 I would like that to be the thing that people focus on and hear last and I believe in recency.
0:51:54 So I want to end the podcast with that just remarkable explanation of eight things people
0:51:55 can do.
0:52:02 There have been about 225 episodes of this podcast and it required reading about 200
0:52:03 books.
0:52:06 I read basically I read a book a week for these podcasts.
0:52:12 I think your book is the most powerful book I’ve read in the past five years.
0:52:14 I really truly do believe that.
0:52:20 In my dream, you like my book as much as I like yours.
0:52:22 Thank you for this conversation.
0:52:27 I think because by nature of my profession, people often turn to me for hope and they
0:52:33 asked me what gives you hope and I want to tell you that this conversation and your voice
0:52:37 and your presence in the world and the fact that we did not know each other until this
0:52:42 conversation and we’re so in sync with each other in so many powerful ways that gives
0:52:43 me hope.
0:52:48 There are so many more good people in the world that we don’t yet know and if we can find
0:52:54 our way to amass our spirits, I know that we can transform this broken world into a
0:52:57 world of healing, a world of love and a world of justice.
0:53:00 So thank you so much for giving me hope today.
0:53:07 I only have a one word response to that, which is amen.
0:53:08 Amen.
0:53:16 Thank you so much and we’ll get this out and we’ll cover the earth with it.
0:53:19 All right, and here’s to world peace.
0:53:20 Amen.
0:53:21 Amen.
0:53:24 Well, and I’m happy to share this conversation.
0:53:26 I mean, actually, we broke some new ground here.
0:53:30 I said some things I’ve never said anywhere else, and I’ve been doing a lot of these.
0:53:32 So you pulled something out of me.
0:53:33 I’m really grateful.
0:53:35 I’m sure Netanyahu will love it.
0:53:37 Oh my God.
0:53:41 I was asked by Christiana Manpour in December.
0:53:44 She said something like, “Wow, I’m hearing what you’re saying and then I’m hearing what
0:53:47 BB Netanyahu says and what do you have to say about that?”
0:53:48 And I said, “He’s wrong.
0:53:50 The prime minister’s just wrong.”
0:53:52 And I thought, “Okay, I just said that on CNN.
0:53:56 So now 9 million people have heard that, but he is wrong.”
0:54:05 When I was much younger, my first job was working for a jewelry manufacturer in downtown
0:54:09 LA, and this was a Jewish family.
0:54:13 And this Jewish family truly embraced me.
0:54:16 I learned so much from them.
0:54:25 When I say this, some Jews get offended, and I’ll tell you, I learned so much about selling
0:54:30 from them, which I view as a crucial life skill.
0:54:34 But sometimes when I tell people this, they say, “Oh, you’re just continuing this stereotype
0:54:42 of Jews being hustlers and great salespeople, and you’re just, you’re being racist.”
0:54:43 And they don’t understand.
0:54:50 I mean that in the highest form that what I learned from that family about selling and
0:54:54 about trust, because the jewelry business is based on trust.
0:55:00 You can walk out every day with millions of dollars in your pocket, and you can cheat
0:55:02 on the content of the gold.
0:55:07 You can tell people this is such and such quality of diamond, and you could lie.
0:55:11 It’s very easy to cheat in the jewelry business.
0:55:15 And the jewelry business treated me very well for years.
0:55:20 I’m telling you this whole story because I have, I was one of the few Japanese Americans
0:55:27 on the Jewish Defense League donation list.
0:55:31 And you mentioned this interview, the number 18.
0:55:34 So I just want to verify something.
0:55:42 So what I learned was that 18, the symbol is very close to chai, which stands for life.
0:55:45 So 18 is a lucky number, right?
0:55:46 Yeah, that’s right.
0:55:49 No, there’s a numeric equivalent to each letter.
0:55:54 And so the 18 is yudhet, which is the inverse of chai.
0:56:02 And so, right, so we make donations often in 18 or 180 or 1800 or 1.8 million.
0:56:08 I was just going to say that because when they used to give me bonuses and stuff, everything
0:56:10 was in a multiple of 18.
0:56:11 Well it’s a blessing.
0:56:14 It’s like you’re getting a bonus, but you’re also getting a blessing that you should live
0:56:15 a long way.
0:56:16 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
0:56:20 So I do things in multiple of 18 to this word, to this day.
0:56:23 Very few people know why I do things in multiples of 18s.
0:56:24 I love that.
0:56:25 I do too.
0:56:29 So I always put my donations in multiples of 18.
0:56:32 So, chai, it’s wonderful to meet you and connect.
0:56:37 I hope our paths will cross again, and Madison, thank you for navigating this from behind
0:56:38 the scenes.
0:56:39 All right.
0:56:56 So, as I have come to embrace your language, I would just say, don’t mention it, an M-E-N-S-C-H.
0:56:57 Okay.
0:57:01 And as the Japanese say, “zaigazunt.”
0:57:06 All right, take care.
0:57:16 So that was the most influential rabbi in the United States, Rabbi Sharon Brouse.
0:57:19 What an interesting conversation.
0:57:24 I hope you’ll take her wisdom and spirit and love for society to heart, and try to make
0:57:28 this a better world, a better place for all of us.
0:57:30 I’m Guy Kawasaki.
0:57:32 This is Remarkable People.
0:57:36 And now, I want to thank the rest of the Remarkable People team.
0:57:42 That would be Shannon Hernandez and Jeff C. Sound Designers.
0:57:49 Madison Nysmer, producer and co-author of the book, Think Remarkable, nine ways to transform
0:57:52 your life and make a difference.
0:58:01 And let’s not forget Tessa Nysmer, researcher, Fallon Yates, Louise Magana, and Alexis Nishimura.
0:58:09 Until next time, mahalo, aloha, and zaigazunt.
0:00:16 We’re on a mission to make you remarkable.
0:00:21 Helping me in this episode is a remarkable Rabbi Sharon Brouse.
0:00:28 She is the founding and senior Rabbi of ICAR, a trailblazing Jewish community in Los Angeles.
0:00:36 She was named the most influential Rabbi in the United States by Newsweek in 2013.
0:00:42 She delivered blessings at the inaugural prayer services for Presidents Obama and Biden.
0:00:48 Her TED Talk, Reclaiming Religion, has over 1.5 million views.
0:00:53 Sharon holds a Master’s in Human Rights from Columbia University and was ordained by the
0:00:56 Jewish Theological Seminary.
0:01:02 She serves on the Faculty of Reboot and the New Israel Funds International Council.
0:01:07 She has recently been in the media providing comfort and clarity to the people affected
0:01:10 by the Hamas terrorist attack.
0:01:17 Her new book, The Amen Effect, Ancient Wisdom to Mender Broken Hearts and World, explores
0:01:22 the power of community to heal and rebuild society.
0:01:29 I’m Guy Kawasaki, this is Remarkable People, and now here is the remarkable Rabbi Sharon
0:01:34 Brouse.
0:01:37 Please explain what does a Rabbi do?
0:01:39 Oh, that’s a great question.
0:01:40 It is?
0:01:42 No, it is a great question.
0:01:48 In fact, one of the stories in my book is when I was struggling with some grief that
0:01:53 had settled into my body and there was a healer who was working on, who asked if she could
0:01:58 help me, and she said to me, “What do you do for a living?”
0:01:59 And I said, “I’m a Rabbi.”
0:02:00 And we were in Costa Rica.
0:02:02 She said, “I have no idea what that is.”
0:02:05 And I said, “It’s like a pastor or a priest, but Jewish.”
0:02:08 And she said, “Oh, you bury people, I understand.”
0:02:14 Which helped her, it helped explain why I was holding grief in my body tissue.
0:02:22 So we could start there, but really a Rabbi is a teacher, a pastor, a guide through some
0:02:27 of life’s most beautiful and challenging and painful moments.
0:02:34 My job is to help people reconnect with our sacred past so that we can live more meaningfully
0:02:40 and more purposefully in the present and build a more just and loving future.
0:02:46 So it’s all the stuff of life, including most poignantly, I think, being with people through
0:02:52 some of the most painful moments of their lives, and also helping usher people through
0:02:56 the most beautiful moments, standing under the chupa, under the wedding canopy, naming
0:03:01 babies, visiting people when they’re sick in the hospital, and walking people through
0:03:04 burial and their time of grief, all of this.
0:03:10 It’s being part of the stuff of life, but all the while being a translator of ancient
0:03:15 ideas into the present so that we can live differently than we do.
0:03:16 Great.
0:03:23 So now, the title of your book is the Amen Effect, but there are many connotations to
0:03:25 the word amen.
0:03:28 Somebody could say something and you want to signify agreement.
0:03:35 So you say amen, and then there’s the, at the end of a prayer or end of a thought.
0:03:40 So how do you use the word amen in your title?
0:03:42 In all of those ways.
0:03:46 One of the things I love about this word and why I wanted to call the book the Amen Effect
0:03:52 is because it has resonance in so many different traditions and it’s used in so many different
0:03:57 ways, both in sacred community and also it has a kind of secular resonance too, as you
0:03:58 just said.
0:04:02 People say amen to each other, but the idea of amen, it actually comes from the Hebrew
0:04:05 word emuna, which means faith.
0:04:11 And so I think a lot about who we’re expressing faith in and what we’re expressing faith in.
0:04:17 And for some people, amen, and amen is about faith in God, faith in the Holy One, faith
0:04:19 in some force in the universe.
0:04:24 But the real resonance that I’m drawing upon for the book is that it actually is something
0:04:26 we say to each other.
0:04:31 We say amen to each other’s experience in the world, whether that’s an experience of
0:04:38 sorrow or celebration, when it’s someone else’s prayer that we say amen to, then we’re saying
0:04:44 I see you, I hear your prayer, I hear the yearning of your heart, and I’m able to connect
0:04:45 with you on a spiritual level.
0:04:50 I’m able to see you and hopefully also to be seen by you.
0:04:54 And that that is one of the most powerful gifts that human beings can give each other.
0:05:01 The title actually draws from or grew out of my understanding of one of the most important
0:05:05 foundational and oldest Jewish prayers, which is the mourner’s prayer that we say after
0:05:07 the death of a loved one.
0:05:10 And I realize it’s a very complex theology.
0:05:13 The poetry is ancient and profound.
0:05:18 It’s written in Aramaic, which was the language that Jews would have understood 2000 years
0:05:20 ago, but now mostly don’t understand.
0:05:23 So it feels very impenetrable.
0:05:26 But I realized that what’s actually going on in this prayer is that someone with a broken
0:05:33 heart stands in front of a community of strangers and friends and says, my heart is broken.
0:05:37 And the community responds saying, amen, I see you.
0:05:42 And then they go on to say, I’m so scared because I don’t even know how to grieve.
0:05:45 And the community says, amen, we’re right here.
0:05:46 I’m so worried.
0:05:50 I don’t know how to live without him, amen, we’re right by your side.
0:05:56 This idea of bearing witness is actually made manifest in the prayer itself, which is creating
0:06:01 a kind of muscle memory for repeated relentless presence.
0:06:06 I’m here with you, I see you, amen, amen, amen, amen.
0:06:14 And even if your pain scares me, even if your loss destabilizes me, I’m not going to abandon
0:06:17 you because I’m going to be right by your side.
0:06:21 That is my commitment to you, one human being to another.
0:06:29 And so I just love the idea that we can give each other this amen to one another’s scariest
0:06:35 moments in life, just the ability to say, I’m right here by your side through the dark
0:06:38 night of the soul, and I’m not going to abandon you.
0:06:39 What a gift.
0:06:49 It’s a powerful four letter word, clearly, as I was reading this book, not that I’m a
0:06:53 theological scholar or anything, but the thought keeps coming back.
0:06:56 Are the world’s religions so different?
0:07:04 I’ll tell you, I had a revelation once when I was sitting in church on Christmas Eve.
0:07:10 I’m a Jew and I’m a rabbi, and I had never before been to Christmas Mass.
0:07:14 There is a kind of reluctance for Jews to even enter churches.
0:07:20 There’s some legal parameters around us going in and there’s an echo of this is not a safe
0:07:24 place for Jews to be throughout history.
0:07:29 The calls for the pogroms often were issued from the pulpit, so to speak.
0:07:32 And so I had always avoided going into a church on a sacred moment.
0:07:35 I’d been in as a tourist, but never in a sacred moment.
0:07:41 When I moved to Los Angeles, a wonderful pastor, the rector of All Saints Church in Pasadena,
0:07:47 a beloved reverend named Ed Bacon, heard that I moved to town, a young rabbi called
0:07:50 me up and said, “Hey, sister, you got to come to church.
0:07:53 I want you with me on Christmas Eve.”
0:07:59 And so I went and I sat in the front row with all of his Jewish and Muslim friends, and
0:08:02 I listened to him preach on Christmas Eve.
0:08:10 And he told this incredible story of the birth of Jesus, which he said, he described Jesus’s
0:08:17 parents, Mary and Joseph, who were so poor and cast out from society that she went into
0:08:23 labor and not one person in the inn would make room to bring her in so that she could
0:08:25 give birth indignity.
0:08:29 And instead she had to give birth on the lawn outside and he said all of the history of
0:08:36 Christianity from that point forward was an attempt to rectify that terrible moment when
0:08:40 the society had rendered a poor couple invisible.
0:08:45 And I was sitting in the front row, a young rabbi, and I was literally had this revelatory
0:08:52 experience where I realized, my God, that’s a beautiful story and that’s not my story.
0:08:57 That’s Ed Bacon’s story, but I have my own story, which is the story of the Exodus from
0:08:58 Egypt.
0:09:04 It’s the story of my people being enslaved for hundreds of years under Pharaoh, this
0:09:09 oppressive tyrant, and then partnering with God to walk toward liberation and being called
0:09:15 to build a society that’s a counter testimony to the cruelty and oppression and humiliation
0:09:18 and degradation that our people experienced.
0:09:19 But you know what?
0:09:25 Ed Bacon believes that his work in the world is to build a society that counters the cruelty
0:09:29 of the society that left Mary to give birth outside.
0:09:34 And I believe that my work in the world for thousands of years as a Jew is to build a
0:09:39 society that counters the cruelty that my people experienced in Egypt so many years
0:09:45 ago, we have different stories, we’re guided by different core narratives, but we’re on
0:09:47 the same track.
0:09:52 And we both share the same dream of what that world redeemed could look like.
0:09:56 I literally thought all of this sitting in the front row on Christmas Eve with the incense
0:09:57 and the flags.
0:10:03 And I thought, this guy’s my partner in working to build a just and loving world.
0:10:06 He has to be because we dream the same dream.
0:10:10 It’s just motivated by different core stories.
0:10:13 And he speaks of God in one name, and I speak of God in another name.
0:10:17 Our prayers are different, but our dreams are the same.
0:10:20 And so we should be partners in building that world together.
0:10:24 And would you say that extends to the dream of Muslims?
0:10:26 Absolutely, it does.
0:10:31 And in fact, one of the things I love about the word Amen is that that word is also heard
0:10:32 in the mosque.
0:10:37 Amen, Jews say Amen, Christians say Amen, Muslims say Amen.
0:10:45 I love the idea that so many people of faith are able to find themselves on a path toward
0:10:51 deeper spiritual connection by acknowledging the humanity of one another and lifting one
0:10:55 another up in the hopes that we can build a different kind of world.
0:11:01 And so I really see that faith should be a unifier and not a divider.
0:11:06 And it’s one of the reasons that we built our community 20 years ago in Los Angeles,
0:11:11 because I really looked at what religion looked like in the public space.
0:11:17 And in all of our religious traditions, the dominant religious voice was often one of
0:11:25 extremism, of exclusion, of intolerance, of cruelty, even of violence.
0:11:31 And I realized that so many of our faith traditions have at their core messages of peace, that
0:11:37 the path to God is honoring the image of God in every human being.
0:11:41 I know that those messages exist in all of our sacred texts, and I think that every religious
0:11:46 practitioner today is an interpreter of text.
0:11:53 And so we don’t have to choose the most regressive extremist and violent interpretations.
0:11:57 We can and we must choose interpretations that lead us not to hate each other, but to
0:11:58 love each other.
0:12:06 And some of my best partners in the work are people who are religious, Muslims, Christians,
0:12:12 people who are sick, people who are Buddhist, people who take very seriously their own tradition
0:12:16 as a call toward manifesting the dignity of all human beings.
0:12:17 Okay.
0:12:22 This is something I struggle with is help me wrap my head around the fact that all of
0:12:30 these, what I consider good and solid and loving values are professed by people.
0:12:38 And yet leaders in these churches supporting things that just is not according to scripture,
0:12:42 it’s complete utter contradiction.
0:12:47 So how do I wrap my head around the fact, whether it’s an evangelical or a far right
0:12:54 conservative Jewish person, how do I wrap my head around this conflict between what they
0:13:00 profess in this loving God and their actions in the real world?
0:13:10 I really feel that there’s a mandate for me and for you and for anyone who sees a different
0:13:18 kind of call in the sacred traditions to use our voices as a counter testimony to those
0:13:20 extremist voices.
0:13:27 Every time I hear a rabbi issue a proclamation that counters my understanding of who we’re
0:13:33 called to be as Jews in the world, I feel I have to speak even louder.
0:13:38 I have to offer even more moral clarity about what I read from our sacred tradition.
0:13:44 The first thing we learn about human beings in the Hebrew Bible, which is held sacred
0:13:49 by Jews and Christians and Muslims, the first thing we learn about human beings is that
0:13:55 every human being is created in God’s own image, that every single human life is sacred.
0:14:01 And our rabbis read that in the Mishnah, the ancient compendium of Jewish law that’s codified
0:14:09 1800 years ago, and they read that to mean that every person has innate dignity, that
0:14:15 if you destroy a single life, it’s as if you’ve destroyed an entire world because we have
0:14:19 no idea the reverberative power of any human life.
0:14:22 And if you save a human life, it’s as if you’ve saved an entire world.
0:14:25 And that teaching is then echoed in the Quran.
0:14:29 This is something that Jews and Muslims share, this idea.
0:14:34 Our rabbis read that the fact that the first person was created alone and created in the
0:14:41 image of God means that all people are fundamentally equal, which is the fundamental incompatibility
0:14:43 of religion and racism.
0:14:49 You can’t take religion seriously and be a racist because if you take religion seriously,
0:14:52 it means that you believe that we all come from the same one.
0:14:56 So how can anyone be fundamentally better than another?
0:15:01 It means it means that every single person is unique, that every person has something
0:15:04 to offer in this world that is absolutely unique.
0:15:09 And if that person were to no longer to exist or not to grow up in conditions where that
0:15:12 person can flourish, then the world is bereft.
0:15:20 And so what my response is, obviously, when I hear a rabbi issue a proclamation that defies
0:15:25 my understanding of who we’re called to be as Jews and as human beings in the world,
0:15:27 obviously, it fills me with pain.
0:15:33 I’m an anguish over it, but I try to channel my pain into a different kind of discourse.
0:15:39 I will use every platform I can to preach a different kind of truth, the kind of truth
0:15:45 that I believe comes straight from the same religious text that he’s reading in one way.
0:15:50 I’m going to read in another way, and I’m going to read it as a call for greater love
0:15:52 and understanding.
0:15:57 Even if that rabbi is going to use it as a justification or an excuse for violence and
0:16:02 for human cruelty, and I think that that needs to happen in all of our religious traditions,
0:16:07 the religious extremists will take up all the space in the room if we let them.
0:16:13 And so what we have to do is offer voices that counter those voices that are fundamentalist
0:16:18 and extremist, and we have to amplify those voices.
0:16:24 We have to make sure when we hear people speaking in voices of love that we lift those up because
0:16:28 those voices too are directly from the tradition.
0:16:34 And again, all interpreters are making a choice about what we lift up and what we hold sacred.
0:16:35 My choice is love.
0:16:42 And I often think, I, about what if I’m wrong, and what if the sacred texts actually are calling
0:16:46 for exactly what these extremist voices believe?
0:16:47 And I’m wrong.
0:16:48 They’re not about love.
0:16:50 They’re not about justice.
0:16:52 And I think one day I’ll have to contend with that.
0:16:58 One day I will meet the Holy One, and God will say, “How dare you use my hateful texts
0:16:59 to preach love?”
0:17:00 And I’ll say, “You know what?
0:17:03 I chose to see a better side of you, right?
0:17:08 If it comes to that, I will take that, I will take that leap at that time, but I really
0:17:13 believe that we are called not to destroy each other, but to help each other thrive and
0:17:17 to create societies in which human thriving is possible.
0:17:19 And I will continue to believe that.
0:17:24 I really do, and I’ll continue to fight for that reality in this world.
0:17:27 I don’t think you should be too worried about that moment.
0:17:33 I think there are a lot of people who, they better be ready to explain why they did such
0:17:42 heinous things in his or her name, because I just cannot wrap my mind around we’re evangelical
0:17:50 Christians, but we want to put LGBTQ+ people on the fringe and we want to put the Mexicans
0:17:55 in the concentration camps and all this kind of just unbelievable stuff that they call
0:17:56 themselves Christians.
0:17:59 I don’t understand that at all.
0:18:05 My response rather than screaming at the screen when I read and hear about this is to work
0:18:12 to build a community that is truly loving and embracing of LGBTQ folks that really
0:18:17 centers the voices of people who are marginalized in other religious spaces.
0:18:23 Part of that is publicly acknowledging the violence that so many of our religious traditions
0:18:29 have done toward marginalized people over the course of history, acknowledging it, naming
0:18:35 it out loud, and then working as hard as we can to create spaces, again, that are a counter
0:18:41 testimony to that kind of exclusion and cruelty and violence.
0:18:49 It seems to me that there is such a schism between the word of God and the actions of
0:18:54 the church, the formal church in so many ways.
0:19:02 And then you hear about how the attendance and support of churches are declining.
0:19:06 And it makes perfect marketing sense to me that there is such hypocrisy.
0:19:09 How can you support the church?
0:19:13 You can love God and hate the church at this point, right?
0:19:18 I gave a TED talk about this some years ago now in 2016.
0:19:25 And I said that part of the reason that we built our community is because on one hand
0:19:32 we had this corruption, in my view, of faith and religion, the manifestation in the public
0:19:39 space of religious life as an excuse for cruelty toward other human beings and for supremacy.
0:19:46 And on the other hand, exactly when our religious institutions needed to be a powerful counter
0:19:53 voice, they were becoming quieter and more muted and less courageous and less creative.
0:19:59 And I really felt like we needed to reintroduce the language of the prophets, the prophetic
0:20:02 voice into the public space.
0:20:08 These guys, I mean, Isaiah got naked and ran through the streets screaming for years to
0:20:11 get people’s attention and say, “What’s going on?
0:20:13 Our society is broken.
0:20:15 Wake up people.
0:20:18 Where is that voice today?”
0:20:23 And the way that I phrased it was, the young people are speaking with their feet, fleeing
0:20:25 religious institutions.
0:20:31 And it’s across the board, or at least it was 20 years ago when we started our community,
0:20:36 that Jews, Christians, Muslims, all of us were reporting a decline in affiliation, decline
0:20:39 in church attendance, the church was graying.
0:20:44 There were all kinds of studies about the discontinuity crisis in Judaism.
0:20:47 People in church averaged 70 and up in Christianity.
0:20:52 And what I said was that young people have decided that they’re simply uninterested in
0:20:59 engaging a religion that’s deadly or a religion that’s already dead, right?
0:21:05 So what we have to do is revitalize, reanimate, create a new kind of religious practice.
0:21:11 And here I’m very influenced by the teachings of a Benedictine monk named David Steindl-Rost,
0:21:18 who you might know, who David Steindl-Rost wrote that all religions start with some kind
0:21:22 of powerful, mystical revelation.
0:21:25 It’s the equivalent of a volcanic eruption.
0:21:29 It’s fiery, it’s powerful, it’s moving.
0:21:35 That revelation either happens to one person or to many, but it is unquestionably a powerful
0:21:36 mystical moment.
0:21:43 And then like a volcanic eruption, the lava flows down the side of the mountain and lands
0:21:45 at the base of the mountain.
0:21:50 And then some years pass, maybe a couple of hundred years pass, and at some point people
0:21:55 walk by the base of that mountain and all they see is cold dead rock.
0:22:00 And they have no idea that there used to be a fire underneath that stone.
0:22:05 And he says our work as practitioners is to take out a chisel and start chipping away
0:22:09 at the cold dead rock and reclaim the fire that is at the heart of it.
0:22:13 And what that means is, can you create a fire?
0:22:18 Can you create a fire that gives warmth and that gives light but doesn’t burn the house
0:22:20 down?
0:22:25 That’s the danger of religious practice because the people who have the most fiery experience
0:22:28 of faith are often the arsonists, right?
0:22:31 Or the people who are burning the house down right now.
0:22:35 They’re literally threatening to burn the whole world down right now.
0:22:43 Can we create an experience of faith and community that is passionate and fiery but fiery for
0:22:47 love and not for supremacy is such a thing possible?
0:22:49 And I believe it is possible.
0:22:54 And it is actually the mandate of those who live in this world today and want to see a
0:23:00 different kind of world to try to reclaim the very essence of what stood at the heart
0:23:01 of our traditions.
0:23:06 And in fact, the name of my community is Ikar, which means in Hebrew, the essence or the
0:23:08 core or the heart of the matter.
0:23:35 Can we get back to that sacred fire at the heart of our traditions?
0:23:41 Okay, so let me ask you the most facetious question you may have faced for a while, which
0:23:46 is let’s say that Netanyahu listens to this podcast.
0:23:52 That ain’t going to happen, but let’s just say he listens to this podcast and he’s inspired
0:23:58 and he calls you up and says, Rabbi, give me your thoughts, give me your advice.
0:24:00 What do you think I should do?
0:24:01 What do you say to him?
0:24:10 I agree with you that I don’t think he’ll hear this podcast, but I think that he needs
0:24:11 to resign.
0:24:16 I think that there needs to be new leadership and there needs to be new leadership with
0:24:18 a new vision of what’s possible.
0:24:22 Eternal war is not an option.
0:24:24 Israelis and Palestinians deserve to thrive.
0:24:30 They deserve to have a thriving future and we need leaders who can help people imagine
0:24:37 a different kind of future, a future in which every person who lives in that region, whether
0:24:45 they are Israeli Jews or Palestinians, can understand that there’s a life for their children,
0:24:51 a life without war, a life without fear, an opportunity to live in dignity, to have their
0:24:54 collective and their individual rights honored.
0:24:56 It’s possible.
0:25:00 Terrible, intractable conflicts have ended before.
0:25:07 Nobody ever could have imagined that someone could cross the border from Germany to France,
0:25:11 hop on a train, get over to London, go to Belgium.
0:25:17 This Europe was a continent of bloody wars where millions of people died.
0:25:22 They were at war with each other and now there are essentially open borders there.
0:25:28 That only happened because at some point somebody envisioned a different kind of future.
0:25:32 We need leaders there who can actually articulate a different kind of future.
0:25:38 I’ll tell you, Guy, that I, as an American rabbi, believe that part of my responsibility
0:25:46 is to help the diaspora communities envision a different kind of future and then to amplify,
0:25:51 to platform, to amplify and to help resource Israelis and Palestinians who are on the
0:25:57 ground today, who are some of the most courageous people I know, who themselves, even in the
0:26:03 midst of war and with hearts full of grief, are able to imagine a different future.
0:26:08 Their voices are muted on the public stage because what’s much more interesting, the
0:26:15 media is drawn to voices calling for violence, calling for death, calling for eternal war.
0:26:20 But what we actually need is to amplify the voices of the people who instead believe that
0:26:27 peace is possible, believe that there can be a lasting peace that can actually leave
0:26:33 all parties to this terrible conflict, feeling seen and heard and dignified and where they
0:26:35 can build a future.
0:26:40 That future’s not coming under the regime of Benjamin Netanyahu.
0:26:44 That person cannot be the leader that takes us there, but there are leaders who can.
0:26:48 And so I would say to him, with all respect, sir, your time is done.
0:26:50 You’ve done enough damage.
0:26:54 It’s time to step aside and let a new generation of leaders emerge.
0:26:55 Wow.
0:26:59 Let me put my brains back in my head.
0:27:01 That was not the answer.
0:27:05 I was, wow, that is quite the answer.
0:27:11 So I’m going to tell you, this is a real life situation that I face right now.
0:27:16 I have a friend, part of the LGBTQ community.
0:27:22 And every once in a while, he tells me, he says, oh, the people in Michigan have declared
0:27:30 that they are non-committed and we’re threatening Biden because Biden, we believe, is supporting
0:27:37 a genocide and we are so anti-genocide that we’re going to be non-committal and that could
0:27:40 affect his reelection.
0:27:43 And I tell him, so you need to think more than one step ahead.
0:27:50 So let’s say that works and Joe Biden loses and Donald Trump wins.
0:27:56 You’re going to be celebrating for about five seconds before you figure out what Donald
0:27:59 Trump will do to your community and to this world.
0:28:05 They so believe that Joe Biden is trying to create a genocide of the Palestinian people.
0:28:08 What do I even say to that person?
0:28:10 I happen to agree with you.
0:28:15 I will say this, people’s hearts are breaking right now.
0:28:16 They’re breaking.
0:28:22 And I do understand where that pain is coming from that made people right, you know, uncommitted
0:28:24 on the ballot.
0:28:29 I think that they’re trying to use the voice that they have and the power that they have
0:28:33 to signal how heartbroken they are.
0:28:37 My deepest prayer, guys, is that that does not translate into votes for a third-party
0:28:44 candidate or a failure to vote in November because, of course, I see exactly what you
0:28:51 see and the lives of so many people will be so much worse, including the Palestinian
0:28:52 people.
0:28:58 If Joe Biden loses the election in November and Donald Trump is reelected.
0:29:02 And I’ll tell you my deepest fear right now because you’re asking what can you say.
0:29:06 And I think in some ways the most important thing that you and I can do is speak honestly
0:29:08 about it.
0:29:17 But my greatest concern is that in Trump’s first term, he was not able to manifest his
0:29:25 greatest aspirations for the kind of authoritarian regime he wanted to build because the resistance
0:29:27 against him was united.
0:29:34 There was a very broad-based, united resistance to that authoritarianism.
0:29:38 And now that very same coalition that stood together when millions of people came out
0:29:43 to the women’s march, there were five million people across the United States that came
0:29:48 out on his inauguration day in 2017, that coalition doesn’t exist anymore.
0:29:52 It has completely been decimated.
0:29:58 And so my greatest fear is not just that he’ll be reelected for a second term now, but that
0:30:04 he’ll be able to do in his second term what he was not able to do in his first term.
0:30:09 Because the resistance against that regime can’t talk to each other right now.
0:30:16 And so it is of the utmost importance that people vote and that they don’t deny themselves
0:30:21 the right that so many people in this country have fought and died for, the right to vote,
0:30:26 and that they can protest all they want in the days leading up to the election.
0:30:32 But they have to understand what is at stake for all of the people of this country and
0:30:40 the world and for our planet itself if there comes to pass a second Trump administration
0:30:41 in this country.
0:30:49 I think we are standing on the precipice of utter failure of the United States, utter
0:30:50 failure.
0:30:57 Listen, in 2016, I was in Germany and I was having dinner with two friends and they said,
0:31:00 hey, this is your 1930.
0:31:06 And to this day, we ask our grandparents or our parents, how did Germany get behind Hitler?
0:31:09 How could that have possibly happened?
0:31:15 And they said to me, guy, this is the choice that your country faces now.
0:31:21 And do you want your grandchildren to ask, did grandpa fight against Trump and fascism
0:31:23 or did he go along?
0:31:30 And ever since that dinner, I felt convicted and I am just I’m the most political person
0:31:33 you can find and I don’t give a shit.
0:31:36 You don’t want to follow me, you don’t want to read my book, you don’t want to listen
0:31:37 to my podcast.
0:31:38 I don’t care.
0:31:40 This is what I’m telling you.
0:31:45 It’s a source of utter despair and great concern to me, I tell you.
0:31:52 I share your concern and listen, I want to say that my book was initially slated to come
0:31:56 out end of September, 2024.
0:32:01 And my editor at Penguin Random House very wisely realized that this would not be a great
0:32:05 time for the book to come out because she said to me, and this was two years ago, this
0:32:09 is going to be an extremely contentious election.
0:32:13 And she said, nobody’s going to be able to hear the message of this book at that time.
0:32:17 Can you get the manuscript to me 10 months earlier than we had planned?
0:32:21 We want to get it out in January, 2024, a nice quiet time where people can still like
0:32:26 each other and they can hear the message and we can strengthen our muscles to work together.
0:32:27 And so I did.
0:32:31 I got the manuscript in 10 months early, which was about a year and a half ago that we closed
0:32:32 the manuscript.
0:32:38 Anyway, it turns out January, 2024 was not as quiet as we had imagined it might be and
0:32:41 already there are incredible rifts in the society.
0:32:47 But I really believe now that the book came out at exactly the moment that it needed to
0:32:54 come into the world, because at the very heart of the Amen effect is the idea that it is
0:33:01 precisely at the moment that we are most inclined to pull away from each other, that we have
0:33:05 to instead train our hearts to find our way to one another.
0:33:13 It’s exactly when it’s most counter instinctual because somebody else’s pain, it makes us
0:33:19 feel vulnerable because somebody else’s heartache feels to me like it’s a pain I don’t want
0:33:25 to get close to or because someone else’s views or actions have caused me harm.
0:33:29 And the last thing in the world I want to do is get proximate to a person who has caused
0:33:36 me harm that we are called into relationship with one another, we’re called into proximity.
0:33:42 And I do believe that is the only way that we survive this era that we’re living in right
0:33:43 now.
0:33:48 And so in some way, the book coming out during this terrible time has actually given me the
0:33:55 opportunity to talk about what would it take for us to turn to one another with compassion
0:34:01 and with curiosity, precisely at the moment that we all want to jet out of the room and
0:34:03 nobody wants to have anything to do with each other.
0:34:08 And I think that is the most critical message of our time.
0:34:15 And in tactical and practical ways, someone listening to this Christian, Jewish, Muslim,
0:34:22 whatever he or she is, okay, I understand what you said at a high level, but what are
0:34:23 you saying?
0:34:27 Should I go and like take somebody from QAnon out for a few beers?
0:34:29 What are you saying tactically?
0:34:34 Okay, so can I take a step back and just give you the central image of the book because
0:34:37 I think it’ll help us answer that question.
0:34:44 So the central paradigm actually comes from a very ancient practice, which was a pilgrimage
0:34:45 practice.
0:34:49 The Jews used to come from all across the land and even the diaspora and they would come
0:34:53 up to Jerusalem for pilgrimage in the ancient world.
0:34:57 And so this was, we’re talking 2000 years ago, they would ascend to Jerusalem.
0:35:02 They would ascend the steps of the Temple Mount, the most sacred place in the most sacred
0:35:03 city.
0:35:08 They would enter through this beautiful arched entryway and they would turn to the right
0:35:13 and circle around the perimeter of the courtyard, of this ancient space, hundreds of thousands
0:35:15 of people at once.
0:35:21 And when I was researching this book, I read firsthand testimony and accounts from pilgrims
0:35:26 who had gone on the Hajj in Mecca, people who had gone to engage in this sacred practice
0:35:33 and they talked about how transformative it is to engage in this holy work of just being
0:35:38 in movement, in mass movement with millions of people.
0:35:42 In the case of Jewish history, it was hundreds of thousands of people who would be moving
0:35:46 all at once, except the text says, “For someone with a broken heart.”
0:35:51 And that person goes up to Jerusalem, goes up the steps of the Temple Mount, enters
0:35:55 through the same entryway, but instead of turning to the right like everybody else turns
0:35:57 to the left.
0:36:02 And so there’s a sacred encounter that happens between the broken hearted and the people
0:36:05 who are just there for the work of pilgrimage.
0:36:13 And when they pass somebody who’s not okay, they stop, they see her in her humanity and
0:36:14 in her brokenness.
0:36:16 They ask her one simple question.
0:36:21 In Hebrew, the words are malach, which means, “What happened to you?
0:36:25 Tell me about your broken heart.”
0:36:31 And that person answers saying, “I’m a mourner, my loved one just died, or I’m just worried
0:36:36 sick about my kid and I need someone to tell me she’s going to be okay, or my partner just
0:36:41 left and I feel totally blindsided or I just feel so alone in the world.”
0:36:46 And then the people going in the direction of the pilgrims, they give them a blessing
0:36:49 and they say, “May you be held with love in this sacred place.
0:36:55 May you know as you navigate through your treatment for your cancer that you are surrounded
0:36:56 by love.
0:36:59 May you feel that you are accompanied on this journey.”
0:37:03 And what I realized that’s so powerful about this ancient pilgrimage ritual is that literally
0:37:07 none of the parties want to be in this encounter.
0:37:12 The people who are broken hearted do not want to even get out of bed, let alone get dressed
0:37:18 and show up and walk in the opposite direction even when the whole world is going this way.
0:37:22 And yet they do have to go, they’re not allowed to opt out, and they’re not allowed to walk
0:37:26 in the direction of everyone else because they’re not okay.
0:37:30 And we’re told you can’t pretend you’re okay when you’re not okay.
0:37:34 And the people who are okay that day, the last thing in the world they want to do in
0:37:39 this peak moment of their spiritual lives is pull away from their friends and their community
0:37:44 and their families and say, “Hey, I see a bleary eyed stranger who’s walking toward me.
0:37:47 Let me go check in on them and see what happened to their broken heart.”
0:37:50 And yet that’s exactly what they’re called to do.
0:37:56 And I realized that what this ancient ritual is doing is giving us a formula for how to
0:38:03 engage each other when we are broken, when there’s brokenness all around us.
0:38:09 And the formula is compassion and curiosity, compassion and curiosity.
0:38:15 First to actually see each other, to look in the eyes of the other, to see one another
0:38:22 even in our brokenness and to ask, “Tell me, what does it look like from your vantage point?”
0:38:28 And we learn at the end, Chapter 8, I describe that actually it’s not only the brokenhearted
0:38:34 who walk to the left when everybody else is going to the right, but it’s also the ostracized,
0:38:41 which is a very rare, specific, severe punishment that in the ancient world that was visited
0:38:44 upon people who had caused grave harm in the community.
0:38:46 They’re not yet excommunicated.
0:38:49 They’re not the people who if they enter the Temple Mount, they’re going to blow up the
0:38:50 Temple Mount.
0:38:54 Those people are not welcome in there because they would render the place unsafe.
0:39:00 But pretty much everybody else, even the people who’ve caused real harm, they enter that space.
0:39:04 They walk in the direction of the brokenhearted and the people who are okay come from the
0:39:07 other direction and they see them too.
0:39:12 And they ask them, “Tell me, what do you see from your vantage point?
0:39:15 Why is there so much pain in your heart?
0:39:20 You who wrote uncommitted on your ballot, tell me what you see because I’m hurt by that
0:39:22 because I’m worried about our future.
0:39:26 I’m worried about our democracy, but I’m not going to speak from my hurt.
0:39:31 I’m going to find a place to curiosity where I can ask you, “Why did you do that?”
0:39:35 And then they’re going to answer saying, “This is what I see from my vantage point.”
0:39:38 And suddenly we see each other as human beings.
0:39:40 Our sorrow meets sorrow.
0:39:43 Our humanity needs humanity.
0:39:49 And suddenly we’re able to see one another in a different way and we’re in a conversation
0:39:50 with each other.
0:39:52 We’re not going to convince each other.
0:39:54 We’re not going to agree with each other.
0:39:59 But suddenly we can see that we might be on the same side of history and that we’re all
0:40:05 moved by the terrible loss of human life and we all want to dream of a future in which
0:40:13 no people, not Israelis in the Kibbutzim on the Gaza border and not Palestinian children
0:40:18 just over the border on the other side, none of them deserve to suffer.
0:40:22 Can we see one another in our fullest humanity?
0:40:25 And so the book actually gives us this kind of formula.
0:40:26 It’s about compassion.
0:40:27 It’s about curiosity.
0:40:32 The way that we get there is by showing up when our instinct is to pull away from each
0:40:33 other.
0:40:39 We show up for the difficult conversations, for the grief, for the love, for the loss.
0:40:43 And we find our way back into conversation again and again and again.
0:40:50 And at the end of the book, I have eight practices, eight spiritual practices, one correlating
0:40:51 to each of the chapters.
0:40:56 And the idea is this isn’t just some big, vague idea.
0:41:03 There are things that each one of us can do in our lives today that can actually change
0:41:10 the neural patterns in our brains, that can actually rewire us so that we engage differently.
0:41:15 And they’re very simple, so simple that some of them may even seem obvious.
0:41:20 But there are things that we can actually do right now that can lead us into greater
0:41:25 encounter when our instinct is to disincline from one another to retreat.
0:41:33 So tell us the eight, tell us the eight so that people will get a glimpse into the book.
0:41:37 I’m going to start with actually with the last one, because it’s so much of what we’ve
0:41:43 been discussing today, guys, really our shared concern about the future of this country and
0:41:45 the future of the world.
0:41:52 Hannah Arendt, the great 20th century Jewish philosopher, warned that loneliness, isolation
0:41:59 and alienation are preconditions for totalitarianism, that when people are in relationship with
0:42:05 each other, tyrannical regimes cannot take root in a society.
0:42:09 Conspiracy theories cannot take root in a society, because if somebody tells you that
0:42:16 Jews control the weather with space lasers, Jewish space lasers, you might believe it
0:42:21 unless you know a Jew and you know that it rained at that Jew’s wedding.
0:42:24 And then you think, well, if Jews control the weather, why wouldn’t they have stopped
0:42:26 the rain on the wedding day?
0:42:30 And so you realize that this is not real.
0:42:32 And so we have to know each other.
0:42:37 And the reason that this is such a crisis and an urgent crisis is because we don’t know
0:42:38 each other in America.
0:42:41 We are isolated and alienated from each other.
0:42:47 A study done before COVID showed that 30% of Americans do not know the names of their
0:42:49 next door neighbors.
0:42:51 We don’t know each other.
0:42:57 I put this as the practice for chapter two is to actually get to know your neighbors.
0:43:03 So what I have done is I started to go on a run every morning, but the practice is go
0:43:08 for a walk once a week around the block and literally greet every person you pass and
0:43:11 introduce yourselves to the people you don’t know.
0:43:15 I started to go on a run every single morning during COVID.
0:43:19 And I just said hello to every neighbor that I passed on the street and I introduced myself
0:43:24 to the ones I don’t know and has changed my experience of my neighborhood.
0:43:26 I know my neighbors now.
0:43:29 I didn’t know them before, honestly, I just I’m very busy.
0:43:30 I work all the time.
0:43:32 I didn’t know my neighbors and now I do.
0:43:37 So this is something that we can do that will actively change our relationship with our
0:43:44 neighbors that can I think is one of our best shots at saving our democracy moving away
0:43:45 from democracy and toward community.
0:43:52 The sacred practice for chapter one, a chapter that I call show up is go to the funeral.
0:43:54 Just go to the funeral.
0:43:59 Your colleague, your friend, your extended has had a loss.
0:44:00 It takes a lot of effort.
0:44:03 You have to reschedule a lot of meetings in order to get to the funeral.
0:44:09 You never regret going to the funeral and giving comfort to the bereaved and giving
0:44:13 them the opportunity to talk about their loved one.
0:44:17 Whether they had a complicated pain relationship with them or a beautiful relationship with
0:44:22 them and blessed relationship, give them the opportunity to grieve and to know that they
0:44:27 are not alone, that you are bearing withness, that you are with them through this period
0:44:28 of challenge.
0:44:32 The second practice is meet your neighbors, which I’ve already said.
0:44:36 The third practice is a chapter called see no stranger, which I named after the book
0:44:42 of a dear friend of mine named Valerie core, who’s a sick American author who wrote a memoir
0:44:44 in manifesto called see no stranger.
0:44:47 And the practice here is honor the divine image.
0:44:52 And this is an opportunity to actually pause.
0:44:56 And when we have an encounter with someone, for example, someone on the street outside
0:45:04 of the Starbucks, and just imagine for a moment that this too is an image of the divine.
0:45:09 How does that change the way that we encounter that human being who’s living on the streets?
0:45:15 I happen to live in a city where there are, I think, 76,000 people living on the street.
0:45:20 How does that change our encounter with every single human being if we just pause for a
0:45:26 moment and think, I need to honor the image of the divine in this person?
0:45:31 Chapter four, which is about finding our mission, our purpose in this world.
0:45:35 Each one of us, I believe, is called into this world with a very specific purpose.
0:45:42 That chapter is called come alive and the practices start by serving, engage every day
0:45:47 in an act of service for another person because so often we’re searching for the meaning of
0:45:51 life by looking internally and by looking out at nature.
0:45:55 And it’s important for us to have that kind of internal reflection and encounter with
0:45:56 nature.
0:46:02 But I believe that we find our purpose by contemplating how can I be of service today?
0:46:07 What is one thing I can do to be of service to another person?
0:46:09 And that could mean calling a bereaved friend.
0:46:12 It could mean serving a meal to someone who’s homeless.
0:46:16 It could mean bringing a cup of coffee to someone who’s cold.
0:46:21 There are little acts that help us change our experience of one another and change our
0:46:23 experience of the world.
0:46:28 Number five, chapter five is called grieve and live.
0:46:35 And it’s about how we hold joy and pain at the same time with the same heart.
0:46:40 And in chapter five, the practice calls us, even in times of great sorrow, like what we’re
0:46:48 experiencing right now, to give ourselves a joy break, to allow ourselves to have moments
0:46:56 of just pure unencumbered joy, not as an escape from reality, but as a way of honoring
0:46:59 the fact that we are present to a broken reality.
0:47:05 And we cannot sustain that presence if we don’t also allow our souls to be nurtured
0:47:14 and to be nourished by joy, by laughter, by dance, by music, give yourself a joy break.
0:47:20 My friend, Shifra, who was in mourning after her beloved partner died, set the clock for
0:47:26 18 minutes every single day during her year of mourning, in which she forced herself to
0:47:32 experience joy, whether that’s eating the whole chocolate cake or dancing in her apartment
0:47:38 with the music blasting, something to allow herself to experience joy, not to escape the
0:47:45 grief, but as an expression of her vitality, even from the midst of her grief.
0:47:48 Chapter six is a chapter on the healers.
0:47:53 What happens to the people who, by nature or by profession, are always looking out for
0:47:58 others, always caring for others, always going to the funeral, always at the burial, at
0:48:03 the house in mourning, bringing the lasagna for the friend who’s just went through surgery.
0:48:07 And my practice there is called don’t grin and bear it.
0:48:14 Don’t pretend that you are okay when you’re not okay, because this grief that we take in
0:48:18 from one another can fill our bodies until we can’t move anymore.
0:48:24 And there’s a whole movement now, a whole literature around vicarious trauma, secondary
0:48:25 trauma.
0:48:29 What happens to the healers when we just take all of that pain into our bodies?
0:48:35 And as my sister, Dev, says, “If you don’t metabolize that pain, it will metastasize
0:48:37 inside your body.”
0:48:42 So don’t pretend you’re okay when you’re not okay, it’s okay to take a day off, it’s
0:48:47 okay to be held by others, even when you’re the one who usually does the holding.
0:48:51 There are two more here, chapter seven, which is the bear withness chapter that we were
0:48:53 talking about earlier.
0:48:57 This practice is simply to be present.
0:49:06 And I will tell you a very brief story about this, which is the story of a mother who had
0:49:14 a teenager in the house who had become sort of toxic the way sometimes teenagers do.
0:49:19 The house was a landmine, anything she said, anything the mother did could lead to a kind
0:49:22 of explosion in the house.
0:49:27 And finally one day, the mother who’s, I can’t reach my kid, I don’t know how to get
0:49:28 to her.
0:49:30 Finally she did the following.
0:49:35 She said to her daughter, “Listen, I bought a chocolate babka and I am going to be sitting
0:49:37 in the kitchen at midnight.
0:49:41 If you’re hungry for babka, you can find me in the kitchen.”
0:49:46 And she sat there with her slippers and robe on at midnight and the kid did not show up.
0:49:50 And so she showed up the next night with chocolate babka in the kitchen and the kid didn’t show
0:49:58 up day after day, night after night for weeks until finally once in the middle of the night,
0:50:04 this kid showed up in the kitchen at midnight and said, “Mom, is there any babka left?”
0:50:06 And the mom said, “Have a seat.”
0:50:07 And they started to connect.
0:50:12 The idea of chapter seven is just stay present.
0:50:14 Just try to stay present.
0:50:19 Where there’s pain, it will often take a lot of effort in order to be present with one
0:50:21 another.
0:50:24 Just let them know that you’re there and you’re not going to disappear.
0:50:29 And finally chapter eight, which is in some ways the hardest chapter of this book at this
0:50:32 moment, this chapter is called “Wonder.”
0:50:36 It’s a chapter on curiosity and how we hold curiosity for the people, not who are coming
0:50:40 toward us in that sacred circle but who might be coming at us, people who’ve caused us
0:50:45 pain and the practice is breathe and stay at the table.
0:50:50 Try not to leave when the conversation gets hard.
0:50:53 We all have this fight or flight instinct.
0:50:57 Try to just stay and try to hold curiosity.
0:51:01 Sometimes it’s not going to work at all and you’ll feel like I just couldn’t break through
0:51:08 and sometimes just staying at the table ends up planting a seed of possibility in the heart
0:51:13 of the person who’s opposite you, that might lead to some growth and might lead to some
0:51:27 transformation for both of you.
0:51:33 I have about five more questions for you but I’m not going to ask you them because this
0:51:37 is the way to end this podcast with these eight recommendations.
0:51:46 I would like that to be the thing that people focus on and hear last and I believe in recency.
0:51:54 So I want to end the podcast with that just remarkable explanation of eight things people
0:51:55 can do.
0:52:02 There have been about 225 episodes of this podcast and it required reading about 200
0:52:03 books.
0:52:06 I read basically I read a book a week for these podcasts.
0:52:12 I think your book is the most powerful book I’ve read in the past five years.
0:52:14 I really truly do believe that.
0:52:20 In my dream, you like my book as much as I like yours.
0:52:22 Thank you for this conversation.
0:52:27 I think because by nature of my profession, people often turn to me for hope and they
0:52:33 asked me what gives you hope and I want to tell you that this conversation and your voice
0:52:37 and your presence in the world and the fact that we did not know each other until this
0:52:42 conversation and we’re so in sync with each other in so many powerful ways that gives
0:52:43 me hope.
0:52:48 There are so many more good people in the world that we don’t yet know and if we can find
0:52:54 our way to amass our spirits, I know that we can transform this broken world into a
0:52:57 world of healing, a world of love and a world of justice.
0:53:00 So thank you so much for giving me hope today.
0:53:07 I only have a one word response to that, which is amen.
0:53:08 Amen.
0:53:16 Thank you so much and we’ll get this out and we’ll cover the earth with it.
0:53:19 All right, and here’s to world peace.
0:53:20 Amen.
0:53:21 Amen.
0:53:24 Well, and I’m happy to share this conversation.
0:53:26 I mean, actually, we broke some new ground here.
0:53:30 I said some things I’ve never said anywhere else, and I’ve been doing a lot of these.
0:53:32 So you pulled something out of me.
0:53:33 I’m really grateful.
0:53:35 I’m sure Netanyahu will love it.
0:53:37 Oh my God.
0:53:41 I was asked by Christiana Manpour in December.
0:53:44 She said something like, “Wow, I’m hearing what you’re saying and then I’m hearing what
0:53:47 BB Netanyahu says and what do you have to say about that?”
0:53:48 And I said, “He’s wrong.
0:53:50 The prime minister’s just wrong.”
0:53:52 And I thought, “Okay, I just said that on CNN.
0:53:56 So now 9 million people have heard that, but he is wrong.”
0:54:05 When I was much younger, my first job was working for a jewelry manufacturer in downtown
0:54:09 LA, and this was a Jewish family.
0:54:13 And this Jewish family truly embraced me.
0:54:16 I learned so much from them.
0:54:25 When I say this, some Jews get offended, and I’ll tell you, I learned so much about selling
0:54:30 from them, which I view as a crucial life skill.
0:54:34 But sometimes when I tell people this, they say, “Oh, you’re just continuing this stereotype
0:54:42 of Jews being hustlers and great salespeople, and you’re just, you’re being racist.”
0:54:43 And they don’t understand.
0:54:50 I mean that in the highest form that what I learned from that family about selling and
0:54:54 about trust, because the jewelry business is based on trust.
0:55:00 You can walk out every day with millions of dollars in your pocket, and you can cheat
0:55:02 on the content of the gold.
0:55:07 You can tell people this is such and such quality of diamond, and you could lie.
0:55:11 It’s very easy to cheat in the jewelry business.
0:55:15 And the jewelry business treated me very well for years.
0:55:20 I’m telling you this whole story because I have, I was one of the few Japanese Americans
0:55:27 on the Jewish Defense League donation list.
0:55:31 And you mentioned this interview, the number 18.
0:55:34 So I just want to verify something.
0:55:42 So what I learned was that 18, the symbol is very close to chai, which stands for life.
0:55:45 So 18 is a lucky number, right?
0:55:46 Yeah, that’s right.
0:55:49 No, there’s a numeric equivalent to each letter.
0:55:54 And so the 18 is yudhet, which is the inverse of chai.
0:56:02 And so, right, so we make donations often in 18 or 180 or 1800 or 1.8 million.
0:56:08 I was just going to say that because when they used to give me bonuses and stuff, everything
0:56:10 was in a multiple of 18.
0:56:11 Well it’s a blessing.
0:56:14 It’s like you’re getting a bonus, but you’re also getting a blessing that you should live
0:56:15 a long way.
0:56:16 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
0:56:20 So I do things in multiple of 18 to this word, to this day.
0:56:23 Very few people know why I do things in multiples of 18s.
0:56:24 I love that.
0:56:25 I do too.
0:56:29 So I always put my donations in multiples of 18.
0:56:32 So, chai, it’s wonderful to meet you and connect.
0:56:37 I hope our paths will cross again, and Madison, thank you for navigating this from behind
0:56:38 the scenes.
0:56:39 All right.
0:56:56 So, as I have come to embrace your language, I would just say, don’t mention it, an M-E-N-S-C-H.
0:56:57 Okay.
0:57:01 And as the Japanese say, “zaigazunt.”
0:57:06 All right, take care.
0:57:16 So that was the most influential rabbi in the United States, Rabbi Sharon Brouse.
0:57:19 What an interesting conversation.
0:57:24 I hope you’ll take her wisdom and spirit and love for society to heart, and try to make
0:57:28 this a better world, a better place for all of us.
0:57:30 I’m Guy Kawasaki.
0:57:32 This is Remarkable People.
0:57:36 And now, I want to thank the rest of the Remarkable People team.
0:57:42 That would be Shannon Hernandez and Jeff C. Sound Designers.
0:57:49 Madison Nysmer, producer and co-author of the book, Think Remarkable, nine ways to transform
0:57:52 your life and make a difference.
0:58:01 And let’s not forget Tessa Nysmer, researcher, Fallon Yates, Louise Magana, and Alexis Nishimura.
0:58:09 Until next time, mahalo, aloha, and zaigazunt.
In this inspiring episode of Remarkable People, Guy Kawasaki engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Rabbi Sharon Brous, the influential founder of IKAR, a groundbreaking Jewish community in Los Angeles. Together, they explore the power of coming together in difficult times, finding purpose through service, and imagining a future of peace. Rabbi Brous shares wisdom from her new book, The Amen Effect, providing tangible practices to help us stay connected, honor each other’s humanity, and work towards a more just and loving world. Discover how small acts of compassion can create ripples of change and healing in our lives and society.
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